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Jul 07 04:32pm

When you've got a crush on a guy that doesn't return the love it sucks. Big time. Not only is there the pain of wanting someone you can't have, but there's also that horrible feeling of rejection, like you're not good enough or something. While it's totally normal to feel this way, it's important to remember that just because you're not right for him, that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. In fact, you're perfect just the way you are, and someday the right guy is going to know that and heart you back. In the meantime, if unrequited love is getting you down, read our tips for dealing with it in this month's Girlfriend magazine (August issue, Miranda Kerr cover), plus share your experiences on the comment board below. Have you ever crushed on someone who didn't like you back? Or maybe somebody had a thing for you and you just didn't have feelings for them? Let us know all about it and how you dealt with it below!

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1. wayne.mcmillan@xtra.co.nz - Jul 08 04:54pm

Awww im a bit o familiar with the "wanting someone you cant have" scenario !! It sucks hehe xx

2. suzyellis - Jul 08 06:46pm

i always like guys that don't even no me!

it sucks really

3. janna.bradley@xtra.co.nz - Jul 11 07:21pm

ive been in the sit where someone had feelings for me and i didnt return those feelings BUT HE grew on M

4. zoehockeygirl - Jul 13 10:54am

I've liked heaps of guys that didn't feel the same way but I think if you don't give it a shot, you could be missing out on something really awesome.

5. jbwriggles@xtra.co.nz - Jul 13 02:46pm

ive been there sux big time. just remember; there is always someone for everybody.....

6. mikeyveee2000 - Jul 14 09:53am

I've got a huge,obsessive crush on an absolutely stunning,smart,sensitive woman who i fell for the first time I saw her.Now she's moved to Brisbane and I'm going crazy.

We are both married to others yet she is divorvcing her husband.

7. spicegirly72 - Jul 17 07:21am

It's an awful feeling and I have had it many times, but it's good to remember that if they don't want you back then they are not the one. 'The One' WOULD want you. It's really that simple and if you can remember that one simple truth, it can dissipate a lot of suffering and heartbreak.

8. jnquayle - Jul 18 11:55am

Yea i just got dumped recently by a girl who pursued me, then gave all the right signs, met the family etc and then didnt want to see me cause she couldnt reciprocate my feelings. Its not you its me!!!
So yea it can be less than fun dating at times. All this from a 35 yr old woman.....

9. maria_love2002nz - Jul 18 05:16pm

I dumped my boyfriend coz i found out that he was cheating on me. I'm still inlove with him coz he was my first true love, then a year went by then we started to be friends but he wanted more than a friend but i said "NO". but i still love him.

10. lolly_lee16 - Aug 17 03:39pm

ma boyf n i were happy until he told me that he waz in love wif sum1 else .. hu iz actually lyk 4yrz olda then him n she used 2 b a gud friend ov mine .. this waz lyk 6 monthz ago n me n him r still gud friendz but i no he still haz sum feelingz 4 me n i still love him .. but yea ..

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